Poker Belt Buckles

I am new to this drama, I just started season one and I have three questions for you:
# 1. what happened to children lynette? in the pilot episode, it has three boys and a baby. in the following episode, a cop pulls over because her three boys do wear their seat belts, and then later she left the three boys on the roadside. She is then seen dancing with her husband and three boys in pajamas watching the stairs, still in another episode in a season. she tries to get her twins in a special school. but there is no sight nor mention of the child or the third boy? Only later in the season she will attend an evening of poker at home with a baby in a stroller. Has four children or simply twins, in most episodes.
# 2. red head (I forget his name) is a perfectionist, she or did she obsessive-compulsive disorder (compulsive Obsesion) as Monk in the television series Monk.
# 3. Gabby husband is perfect for a red head they match?

1. Lynette and Tom have 4 children. An older boy, Parker, then twin boys, Porter and Preston, and a little girl named Penny. When we see that the twins, we're supposed to believe that the other son is in school and the baby is asleep or children with a babysitter. (At one point a neighbor, Mrs. McCluskey, childcare starts for them. It is hysterical!)

2. Her name is Bree. She is completely obsessed with perfection. It could be a bit limited but OCD.

3. Not so far, but the show is not over! I would not put anything in front of them.

Edit - Zyggy - She did not know about the other daughter of Tom's or the tornado. She is always on the same season. Dobby - Lynette thinks Tom has an affair. But in reality he was just visiting her other daughter from a previous relationship (Well, one night stand before he had to know Lynette.) But it's not cheating on her.

1. twins and a girl

2. "Borders on obsessional neurosis and stress. Although the authors have avoided the character officially diagnosed as suffering from personality disorder Obsessive-compulsive character refers to his" whims "in terms of anal retentiveness and not obsessive compulsive disorder.
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3. No, he is married to Gabby

Lynnette has twins and a girl.
Bree is a perfectionist
Gabby husband (Carlos) does not hang with Bree .....

1. She has four children. Porter, Preston, Parker and Penny. The twins Porter and Preston and why they are seen more because they are troublemakers. Parker has been presented several times with a neighbor. The girl was not often because it is very difficult to run a play with a baby in tow so that they only said she was with her father. They do not always mention every child in every scene, because it's too hard, but they are all seen (and daughter of her husband) after the tornado hit.
2. Her name is Bree, and she probably has a bit of both, but especially perfectionism.
3. No.