My Wife Is A Gambling

wife is addicted to the game ... underway for years. I tried everything to get her to stop. I love her with all my heart. We tried treatment but stopped going after 2 visits. She digs me deeper into the whole all the time. I do not want a divorce but I am beginning to think I may have to pass. She sneaks the money is a question of money, etc. She doesn't think she is addicted because bills are always paid. If she does not get the patch, it is miserable, but once it is "correct", it is the person I fell in love with. I'm late to my mind

You should try again to get into a program. Make sure she knows what it means for you and how much damage he does to the relationship. There are therapy groups for specific players. If it still does not think and you divorce, you must give him an ultimatum, either she works with you to deal with addiction or you leave. * Note * Each time you give an ultimatum to be ready for them to choose the one you do want. In your case of divorce. However, you can let your life be ruined by an addictive personality and if his game is more important to her that her husband, then you really do not want to be in this relationship. There are also support groups for people who like people to this problem as Al-Anon for friends and family of alcoholics. You should try to get help for yourself as well. (Mark one side) If it does not frequent casinos on a regular basis, you can call them and let them know what is happening. They are obliged to take measures ensuring that it does not throw all his money. It is a legal requirement.

Slow take his game to the races, you can only bet every 45 minutes or so.

Try separation before divorce. Divorce can push the edge. Separation allows him to see the real consequences of its actions before it is too late to change. Moving file an order of separation, and maintain separate finances, households remain in touch and make it a goal of a year's absence from the game, and you will return. For each week or month or whatever it does not play, enjoy a weekend with her, either at home or at her. Do not give him money --- let them take over.

This will either attract attention, or he will get yours. If after one year separation, she was no better, then you'll be more mentally prepared to go. On the other hand, makes you have disappeared and not a central element of his life, nor show him how much it may lose.

And do not do less than one year separation, you can even consider making a separation more or less than one year and one year after deciding what you want to do. But some holidays, birthdays, etc. make the bad habits people and you really want that one Christmas, New Year, birthdays, etc. pass before you can really be sure it has influence on his problem.

make a big bet (with its share of the pot to be .. payment) and if she loses her that we should go to pay that bet ...
Just make sure she signs the divorce papers first ..

If she wins 75% and still make sure it leaves hey .. What the hell .. the divorce papers are already signed .. right ..
Good luck

word DIVORCE

open your own bank account to manage the bills you and give her pocket money if she is addicted, it will drop like a hot stone and you get your divorce, if it isn't the problem solved.

Yes, of course, divorce is the first thing people say. morons yous. Get her the help she needs. Tell her you love her and if she does not receive help, then give him an ultimatum. Do not rush to divorce immediately.

As much as you like, you can not have a choice. She will train with her.

What kind of treatment have you tried? It needs a program like Gamblers Anonymous.

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